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SMS Helpline Disruption

We want to let you know that our SMS service will be experiencing disruptions very soon. We’re actively working on a solution and are we are sorry for any inconvenience this may cause.

As a result, we’re expecting to change our SMS helpline number in the near future. We’ll share updates on our website and social media as soon as any changes are confirmed.

In the meantime, if you’re unable to reach us via SMS, please remember that our webchat and email support services remain fully available—we’re here for you.

Group Work

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Meeting other men who have gone through similar experiences to you can be profoundly helpful. A group of survivors is a safe, confidential space where you can tell your story, share experiences, learn from other people’s coping strategies and really feel like you are not alone.

We run a variety of groups, all there to support you emotionally, however some are specialist in areas to meet a range of diverse needs. You can find out more about our current groups here.

This service is available to anyone in the UK. Most groups are held online. You can sign up for monthly group email updates by making a request to the groups team at [email protected]

If you would like to refer to our individual counselling service, please click here.

How to get started?

1. Contact us

You can contact our online helpline service, our group work team at [email protected] or by completing our online referral form here.

2. We Contact You

Once you have completed a referral form, you will receive a confirmation email with details about our available groups. You can then book onto the group which sounds right for you.

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Confidentiality

What you say is important to us and personal to you. We take confidentiality very seriously and only in very extreme cases would we contact anyone else about what you are telling us. But we also care about your safety and the safety of others and if we think you, or someone else, is in immediate risk of serious harm, we will take steps to keep you and others safe. If you want to check that out in more detail before you tell us something, then please do and then you can decide what you feel ready to tell us.

Contact us at [email protected].

Individual Counselling

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We offer individual counselling men, boys, and non-binary people aged 13 and over who have experienced sexual abuse at any time in their lives.

We can provide in-person counselling sessions in various locations across London, or over the phone, video call, or WhatsApp messaging if you prefer.

We take self referrals only. You can self refer by completing our online referral form here, by phoning our office line 0203 598 3898, or by emailing [email protected].

Live outside of London?

We have partnered with Mankind UK, First Step, West Yorkshire Survivors and We Are Survivors to offer online counselling nationwide. To access online counselling, complete a referral through our National Project partners 1in6 here

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How to get started with individual counselling

1. Contact us

You make a self referral by completing our online referral form here, by phoning our office line 0203 598 3898, or by emailing [email protected].

2. Assessment

We will contact you to organise an initial consultation.

3. Discussion

In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or group work at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you.

4. Confirmation

If we determine individual (telephone) counselling is right for you, we will then confirm you’re on our waiting list.

5. Counselling Begins

We will then contact you about suitable times and vacancies while allocating you a counsellor from our team.

If we’re not the right service for you, this is something we’ll discuss with you. We will support you in finding a suitable alternative service that can help.

Our Counsellors

We have a diverse team of counsellors currently providing counselling online. Our counsellors are fully qualified and adhere to BACP guidelines. All of our counsellors are experienced in supporting male survivors and receive ongoing professional training. We have a trained EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) therapist on staff.

How it works

Individual counselling: we offer new clients 12 sessions of counselling. Clients have the opportunity to extend the counselling to a maximum of six months, in consultation with your counsellor.
Individual telephone counselling: the counselling contract is also set up to provide 12 sessions. Your sessions will usually be arranged for the same time each week and will be with the same counsellor each week, allowing continuity and confidentiality.
We keep all information confidential within our organisation unless in exceptional circumstances such as a disclosure about a serious crime or a child protection concern.

1:1 chat sessions with trained support workers, in confidence.

We are here for any man, boy or non-binary person who has ever experienced unwanted sexual activity (such as words, images or touch). We are also here for loved ones supporting a survivor in their lives.

To learn more about our privacy and confidentiality policy click here.

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Please find a selection of useful SurvivorsUK materials below, which can be downloaded via the Download links.

SurvivorsUK Business Cards

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A Guide to Our Services – Leaflet

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Dancing With Our Ancestors – Poetry & therapy booklet by Black, Asian and Mixed heritage survivors

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Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) Services

Complete the ISVA referral form

Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVAs) are trained to provide emotional and practical support to survivors of rape, sexual abuse and sexual assault who have reported to the police or are considering reporting to the police.

Our main role is to support around the criminal justice process, but we are independent from the police and we are not legal advisors.

We recognise that reporting to the police is particularly difficult for trans survivors and survivors of colour, who are less likely to be believed by the police and others about their abuse. We stand against all discrimination and are here to support you if you wish to seek out justice.

Your ISVA will support you in a non-judgemental way to address your needs and will help you ensure that other organisations also provide you with the right kind of support.

Our ISVAs can help you with a range of things depending on your needs and what kind of support you would like. They can:

Provide you with information on the criminal justice process and what you can expect if you report to the police. They can also attend interviews and court with you if you wish.
Give you information on health services and attend appointment with you if you wish.
Help you to think about your safety and what can be done to improve your safety.
Listen to your experiences and give you emotional support.

Our ISVA service is open to boys, men, and non-binary people over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service.

The process

1. Contact us

You make a self referral or an organisation supporting you, such as the police, makes a referral on your behalf. If you would like to refer yourself, please complete this form. If someone is completing the form on your behalf, they should use this form. Alternatively, you can phone 02035983898 or email [email protected]

2. Assessment

Our ISVA will contact you by phone, text or email, however you prefer. We aim to do this within fifteen working days of receiving your referral. If the ISVA service seems the right service for you, we will aim to offer a meeting within seven working days.

3. Discussion

When you first meet with the ISVA, you can talk to them about your needs and what kind of support you would find helpful. We will also cover things like how to keep in touch with the ISVA, confidentiality and assessing risk.

4. Support Begins
We will meet and chat regularly, depending on how much support you feel you need. This can be in person or over the phone.

Our ISVAs

ISVAs are here to help, but they aren’t counsellors.

If you would like to find out about our counselling services, please see here.

Not sure if the ISVA service is right for you? Feel free to contact our ISVA for an informal chat – 02035983898 or [email protected].

If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the London Survivors Gateway.

SurvivorsUK offers professional training on providing services to male survivors and the impact of sexual abuse and rape on men and boys. We offer this training to individuals and organisations at competitive rates from our premises in East London or, depending on numbers, at a rented space nearby.

To make a booking please complete the booking form and email it to [email protected], or call 020 3598 3898.

Upcoming Training Events

No training events are currently planned

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National Database of Male Sexual Abuse Counselling and Support Services

This database includes qualified counsellors, psychotherapists, arts therapists and psychologists who have undergone a specific training with SurvivorsUK, as well as other organisations offering support.

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Enter your town, city or postcode:

Searches are anonymous. We do not store your data

At the point of being accepted onto our database, individual practitioners have agreed to adhere to our terms and conditions including:

Providing us with proof of their qualifications and liability insurance.
Adhering to a code of ethics (BACP/UKCP or equivalent).

Practitioners on this database work independently of SurvivorsUK and do not come under our usual contract of employment. However should you have any complaint about any of the professionals listed please contact us and we shall be happy to assist you as best we can.

For people outside of London

If you’re able to travel to central London, regardless of where you live we can support you in our service, based in Shadwell. This extends to both individual counselling and group work.

If you can’t find a suitable service on our database, you could also try NAPAC or The Survivors Trust which can also give you details about other specialist services in your local area.

Want to be on this list?

Get in touch at [email protected] or 02035983898

Case Worker Services

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A Case Worker can provide practical support to any male or non-binary survivor of rape, sexual abuse or sexual assault who is not currently going through the criminal justice process, or is not being supported by an ISVA.

We can provide up to 3 months of support to assist with areas such as applying for housing, employment, financial support, and finding and accessing other support services.

Our Case Worker service is open to boys, men, and non-binary people over the age of 13, living in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service.

If you are currently part of an ongoing case, or you are considering reporting to the police, please complete a referral form for our Independent Sexual Violence Advisor service via this link.

How do I get started?

1. Contact us

You or someone you trust can fill in this form, or you can phone us on 020 3598 3898 or email [email protected]

2. Initial Chat

One of our Case Workers will get in touch with you by phone, text or email, however you prefer. We aim to do this within two working days of you first getting in touch, excluding bank holidays.

3. What help is right for you

You can chat with your Case Worker about what sort of help will be right for you. We can meet and chat with you regularly, in person, by phone or online, depending on how much support you feel you need.

Our Case Workers

Our Case Workers are here to help you in areas such as applying for housing or accessing other support services. If you are looking for advice on reporting abuse to the police, or have already done so, then you might need an Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) instead.

Not sure if the you need a Case Worker or an ISVA? Feel free to contact the team for an informal chat on 020 3598 3898 or email [email protected]

How to get started?

Confidentiality

How to get started with individual counselling

Our Counsellors

How it works

SurvivorsUK Business Cards

A Guide to Our Services – Leaflet

Dancing With Our Ancestors – Poetry & therapy booklet by Black, Asian and Mixed heritage survivors

The process

Our ISVAs

Upcoming Training Events

Bespoke Training

Rates

Dates

Find support

For people outside of London

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